Supporting Employees Returning from Parental Leave (Guide for Supervisors and Employees)

Written By Angela Knight (Collaborator)

Updated at August 17th, 2026

Purpose

Returning to work after welcoming a child can be both exciting and challenging. Supervisors play an important role in helping employees successfully transition back to work while maintaining productivity, engagement, and a positive employee experience.

This guide outlines recommended practices for supervisors and employees before, during, and after an employee returns from parental leave.

Key Principles

  • Welcome employees back in a supportive and inclusive manner.
  • Avoid assumptions about availability, career aspirations, workload capacity, or future plans.
  • Maintain open communication and flexibility where operationally feasible.
  • Ensure employees understand available workplace resources.
  • Respect privacy regarding medical, family, and childcare matters.
  • Focus on performance expectations while supporting a successful transition.

Approximately One Month Before Return

Schedule a return-to-work check-in 3-4 weeks before the anticipated return date. Confirm return date, discuss schedule, flexibility, accommodations, workplace needs, lactation resources, technology needs, and team updates.

Preparing for the Employee's Return

• Ensure building, computer, email, and system access are active.

• Prepare project, staffing, policy, and organizational updates.

 

First Week Back

• Hold a welcome-back meeting.

• Review priorities, expectations, and available resources.

• Set realistic expectations and support a gradual transition where feasible.

 

Lactation Support

• Familiarize yourself with available lactation spaces and policies.

• Support reasonable break scheduling and protect employee privacy.

• Ensure employees know how to access lactation accommodations.

 

Flexibility and Transition Support

• Discuss childcare transitions, appointments, and workload management.

• Focus on outcomes and provide flexibility when operationally feasible.

 

One-Month Follow-Up Check-In

• Schedule a 30-day check-in to discuss workload, transition success, barriers, and support needs.

Creating an Inclusive Environment

Best Practices:

• Welcome employees back warmly.

• Include employees in meetings and team activities.

• Provide updates without overwhelming them.

• Offer support while respecting boundaries.

Avoid:

• Assuming employees want reduced responsibilities.

• Assuming employees are less committed to their careers.

• Asking intrusive medical questions.

• Referring to parental leave as a vacation.

 

Supervisor Checklist

Before Return:

□ Contact employee 3-4 weeks before return.

□ Confirm return date and schedule.

□ Review lactation resources and workplace needs.

□ Ensure technology and building access are active.

First Week Back:

□ Conduct welcome-back meeting.

□ Review priorities and expectations.

□ Connect employee with support resources.

First Month:

□ Conduct 30-day check-in.

□ Address concerns or barriers.

 

Sample Supervisor Welcome Email

Subject: Welcome Back

Hello [Employee Name],

We are excited to welcome you back on [date]. As your return approaches, I would like to schedule a brief meeting to discuss your transition back to work, answer any questions, and ensure you have the resources you need for a successful return.

We look forward to having you back.

Best,

[Supervisor Name]

Organizational Information for Supervisors and Employees:

Lactation room locations by building:

Leave and benefits contacts

HR contact information

Work modality information

Campus or organizational support resources